I understand that your message comes from a genuine concern for the welfare of young people. And of course I agree that children should be protected from sexual assault. For that matter, EVERYONE should be.
But on the point of the word “Daddy,” I think you need to broaden your view. “Daddy” has been used as a term of affection between lovers, inside and outside of BDSM, for sixty years or more. For that matter, lovers have been calling one another “baby” or “babe” for the last century. Do you assert that the writers of almost every love song since the 1920’s are endorsing sex with infants? That’s absurd.
Finally, I reject your comparison of “Daddy” to the “N” word. The “N” word has never been anything but an epithet, at least, so far as I know. Whereas “Daddy” is associated with a long list of positive attributes that have nothing to do with actual fatherhood.
So, rather than starting a movement to evict the word “Daddy” from BDSM, let’s focus on the important part of your message: actually protecting children from abuse.
Rule number one… If you get soap in you littles eye you must help get soap out quickly then let her eat all the ice cream she wants and play with her and watch movies with her all night long!
Rule number two… If your little gets a owie no matter how small, kiss it better.
Rule number three… always good morning and goodnight kisses, no matter if your little is being a brat, your mad at them, or they are mad at you, or even if they are asleep. Always always Gm gn kisses!
Rule number four… you must play and do somthing with your little to make their little side very happy at least 2 times a week. (examples) 》give bath . Color together . Blanket fort . Reading to your little . Playing dress up . Dance . Craft . Hide N go seek . Board games . Movie night . Glow stick party . Play chubby bunny and take pictures . Nerf gun war . Lazer tag .
Anything that makes your little all giggles and smiles!
AND TO THIS…. LET SEE HOW MANY MORE LITTLES HAVE RULES OR IDEAS FOR THEM! :D